Wednesday, November 20, 2024

Beauty Tips

A well-seasoned woman of God is uniquely beautiful. The aged woman who has lived through many seasons of life. They have a softer voice, gentle nature, a calmness, and a humble disposition that draws you in powerfully. Their secret I have discovered is not in a cream, a foundation, or in their genetic make-up. Their glow is a peace that reflects their teachable heart and obedience in Christ. They have gained wisdom by practicing in error and victory.

Last week I missed my Bible study class that is reading a book about Mary and Martha. It is unlike anything I have ever learned regarding them. I will list the book’s name and author at the end of this blog post. This week I have had to read two chapters to catch up. The whole time I was reading last week’s chapter I kept hearing in my spirit this is true beauty, Anna. I will share some beauty tips here as I learned from Chapter 10. The chapter is about being “teachable.” 

Beauty Tips:
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·      Be teachable.

o   Are you teachable? He doesn’t need “know-it-alls;’ He wants people who are willing to learn. Are you a know-it-all?

·       Be available.

o   Jesus needs available people who are teachable.

·       Be transformed.

o   We have to change and change hurts.

§  My mama would pull our hair up and put a ribbon in it. We would wince but she would say, “It hurts to be beautiful.”

o   “God is more concerned about our character than our comfort.” Paul W. Powell.

·       Know you are valuable to Jesus.

o   Martha thought she had value because she was productive.

o   Her true value was that she was His.

·       Stick it out!

o   Martha stuck around and heard Jesus’s rebuke.

o   We must be willing to do the same.

o   Jesus will prepare our hearts to listen and learn.

o   His rebuke is gentle.

o   We can receive it or refuse it. Stick it out!

·       Be humble.

o   When flaws are pointed out, don’t be quick to be offended.

§  Don’t point out others’ faults in defense.

·       Stay close to Jesus.

o   Intimacy with Jesus is better when we receive and apply correction from Him.

o   You will hear Him and sense His presence clearly.

·       Prioritize Jesus.

o   When Lazarus died and Jesus finally came, Martha left a house full of people to meet Jesus. She threw aside her obligations.

·       Don’t be bossy!

o   Don’t order Jesus around.

§  How to answer your prayer?

§  How to deal with a person?

o   Let His authority decide what is best.

·       Put Faith On!

o   Do not wear Doubt.

o   Do not wear Self-Interest.

o   Know who Jesus IS. The very son of God. Christ, the messiah.

·       Wear “New” timelessly.

o   Get a new heart – a changed heart from Jesus.

§  Ask.

§  Be Teachable

§  Be willing to listen.

§  Act on what you hear.

o   Respond to discipline.

§  Definition of discipline: the practice of training; obeying for spiritual purposes.

·       Pay for It!

o   Pay attention to the voice of God.

§  That thought that came to you and lines up with the Bible.

§  The impression in your heart that reflects His character.

o   Do not thwart His work.

§  It’s our opportunity to be transformed.

o   Face what He might say.

§  He loves you.

§  He is gentle.

·       Sin clogs up and distorts.

o   Give up your denial and rebellion.

o   Not only listen to His voice but obey it. It clears the heart.

o   You will become a “know it all” that people refrain from, if you are always learning but not acting on what you learn.

o   Get rid of what you have learned is sin in your life.

·       Apply Obedience liberally, or you will shrivel up.

o   Refusal to apply God’s truth may actually keep us from hearing His voice.

o   We can become accustomed to God’s voice, and it no longer moves us.

§  Ezekiel 33:31-32 in part: “…they...listen to Your words, but they do not put them into practice.”

o   Obedience is essential to a close relationship with Jesus.

§  He will reveal what really matters in each of our lives.

·       The places we try to hide He will put His finger on.

·       Be receptive.

o   If you are teachable, you will come around to obedience quickly.

o   Our loving Father will do whatever it takes to break rebellion in us, so we don’t suffer in sin.

§  Remember He is gentle but to the point.

o   Martha paid attention to Jesus.

§  She was teachable.

§  She took the tender rebuke.

§  She accepted His words though painful to hear.

o   Hebrews 12:11 in part: “…discipline…it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it.” Beautiful!

·       Make Over Time!

o   Don’t refuse corrections.

o   Respond with a teachable heart.

o   Don’t stay in your trespasses and sin.

o   Don’t get tangled up in emotions, hurts, and past disappointments.

o   Reflect His glory.

o   Reject the world’s values – only conform to what God values.

o   Lay down your old life.

·       Transformation in the Mirror (A beautiful woman in Christ).

o   He transforms you into someone entirely new.

o   You now submit to His power.

o   No more worry.

o   Tongue speaks out of a heart of love for Jesus.

§  No gossip.

§  No lies.

§  No ungodly judgements.

·       No more pointing the finger at someone.

o   Your wealth, things, and “stuff” are not worshipped or idolized.

§  You are generous.

§  You give to advance His kingdom.

o   You adore the Lord God.

o   You have a purpose.

o   You have someone to follow.

o   Sin no longer disfigures you.

o   You drink living water.

o   Your thoughts are now His thoughts.

o   Joy is yours to bubble over with.

o   Your mouth sings a song.

o   You are compassionate.          

§  You come alongside others.

§  You help and bear burdens with others.

o   Your voice resonates softly, strongly.

§  Confident.

§  Youthful and optimistic as opposed to cynical.

o   Your heart is clean and warm.

o   You have a renewed right spirit. 

My friends, I desire to be the woman of God that genuinely is approachable and conveys the peace and love of Him. I am not there but I will never stop my quest. I will continue to seek Him and open myself to being teachable and most importantly obedient. 

A woman of God often has good hygiene, and keeps herself as healthy as possible, but more so she wears a softened look without a rigid stern unapproachable demeanor (in my personal opinion).

What I love about a beautiful woman is when her mouth opens it is kind, considerate, and honest. Yes, we can be honest and deliver truth without aggression, loudness, or in a demeaning voice of authority. Jesus is our best example. We can’t be like Him if we don’t know Him. Reading His word and studying His character will get us in the right direction. We must first be teachable. 

Let’s look in the mirror. Beauty is ours now through Him. 


You are Loved, Anna Christina

Book Note: Having a Mary Heart in a Martha World, Joanna Weaver






 

 

 

 

 

 

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