Friday, my son Cory was finally feeling like himself after his battle with strep and tonsilitis. We went to Hendersonville to get Halloween candy and do some window shopping. We took the scenic route thru Lake Lure and the Apple Country. Every thing was peaceful and calm. On our way home, we stopped at the grocery store to buy the biggest potatoes to bake for our supper, and all the toppings for a loaded potato. We got a movie and were looking forward to some mom and son time. Kevin was at an "away" high school football game.
The potatoes are in the oven. We are in our cozy clothes. I am talking to my sister on the phone, and Cory is flipping thru the 300+ channels on TV. Guess what? You are right if you think it has something to do with my estranged son. We get a call from our local sheriff's dept. He was not arrested but the officer needed to talk to me. I don't want to go into the disappointing details but I want to say "I" ...."I" was put in my place. Why???? It is illegal to throw your kid out at 17. However, he was very supportive in the end. He said to call him any time and he will pick him up at our home for any futher disturbances in our home. He offered to keep him over night on Friday and it was tempting...not to teach him a lesson but so Cory and I could have our supper in peace. I chose to bring him home. I missed him terribly. The officer gave me his cell phone number and let us go.
I love my small town and where everyone knows each other. Though it annoyed Tim terribly, a man dropped in the dept while Tim was there. He said, "I know you, Tim. Your brother is Cory." He was our neighbor and told the officer that we are a good family. The man has never been to our home but drives by every day several times. His son went to school with my boys. Then to add to Tim's annoyance, the officer told him that he also knew Cory from his football days. These annoyances to Tim may be one of the reasons he didn't suffer any consequences for his choices. I didn't tell him this.
It seems to me and I believe my archives of posts confirm that Jesus keeps me on my toes and will not alloy me to get too comfortable. This is not because He is trying to aggravate me..which I admit sometimes I just sigh, but there is so much work to do for Him and I have purposes to fill. It starts here at home.
My son, has been home for 3 days so far. His attitude isn't significantly changed but I clearly see the Lord doing work in his heart. I am LISTENING and he is unknowingly filling me in about his heart and mind. I owe this to you. Those of you who genuinely are praying for me, my son, and family during this difficult time. Thank you from my depths of my heart. Your prayers are working. I know people say they will pray but I know specifically of several who are genuinely praying and have prayed with me verbally. I appreciate the cards and the hugs. Many have shared their own struggles and how they relate to my situation. I am so blessed by all of you. Our work is not over my friends. I still need you for wisdom and guidance.
Two special thank yous must be mentioned.
1. For my husband who is reading to Tim for 30mins each morning from a wonderful Bible based book from Josh McDowell. Tim is responding this time around. Don't give up! I know you support my blog and you know and APPROVE of all that I write. You are a Godly man and I am so blessed. We cannot give up on the little boy who used to make us laugh to tears with his face contortions and silliness. He has added some true joys to our life. Thank you.
2. For Rheta E., you are a prayer warrior. I know this. Your cards have meant so much. I know when you say you are praying for me that you are. I can feel it. I know we don't see each, but I appreciate the times when we would share in church. You have a heart for devotions and women support. Thank you.
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